From Cold Approach to Mind-Blowing Sex

The A-Z Guide

[THREAD] Phase 1: Pick your target

Use the 3-Second Rule:

Approach her within 3 seconds.

If not your mind will start questioning itself, and you'll get nervous.

A man considers a woman boring when she cannot hold a conversation

A women considers a man boring when he cannot spike emotions

[Thread] 'I think I get what you're saying. But can you break it down even further?'

I sure can 👇

LEARNING SEDUCTIVE FRAME CONTROL

When it comes to women, part of frame control (aside from clear ideas and a smattering of charm) is also simply having sufficient sexual success. As you bed more women, you become increasingly certain about what women really want

[Thread] And who they are underneath the hood.

This is also why prostitution, gold diggers, and crazy chicks are so risky for men, because they give men vastly different experiences

HOW TO PULL WOMEN INTO YOUR FRAME

Many free-ranging animals use various displays of color, ornamentation, song, and dance to attract mates. In group-living animals, mating is typically done by rank within the group, so less ostentation is needed.

[Thread] If you are not dating from within a social circle, you cannot rely on rank to bring you women, and so you must rely on display to seduce.

WHY WOMEN LIE DOWN LIKE A STARFISH DURING SEX

The first time this happened to me it was awkward as hell. This was years ago with an old girlfriend.

I remember her just laying there motionless with a blank expression on her face just letting me "get it over with".

[Thread] I'd never seen her act that way up until that point so I carried on, thinking it was something she was into or something she would stop doing soon enough.

But she continued doing it and I was too awkward to stop so I ended up finishing almost completely flaccid and limp.

THE DANGER OF PORN

One of the dangers of porn and masturbation is that it can waste our sexual life force, drain us of energy, & make our ambitions soggy & dull instead of hot like burning fire. We need to feel that fire of life –– we can't let that fire go out

[Thread] Another danger of porn and masturbation is that hardcore porn can really warp our desire for real girls, healthy girls, "normal" girls. Hardcore porn can warp our healthy sex drive and healthy sense of beauty and turn it into a disgusting, degenerate search for sordid thrills

HOW TO TEST IF A GIRL IS ATTRACTED TO YOU

There’s really one test that almost every single time tells you a woman’s attracted to you. Maybe you’ve heard this before, maybe you haven’t. But the key is MOVEMENT

[Thread] Women simply will not move into isolation with a guy that they’re not attracted to. And that applies to daygame, night game, strip clubs, social circle.

4 THINGS WOMEN ACTUALLY CARE ABOUT

Women throw off a bunch of signals about what they claim to want. Yet most of that is noise. Their true wants are simple.

[Thread] THE THINGS SHE CARES ABOUT AND THINGS SHE DOESN'T

It's a little surprising the things women cares about and things they don't.

There's some overlap with what you'd think. And with what pop culture tells you.

5 TEXTING RULES TO FOLLOW WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND

I see a lot of guys get texting their girlfriends all wrong.
Long, romance letter texts where they are excessively sweet.
Panicky jealous boyfriend texts when she doesn't respond back for half an hour.

[Thread] Idiotic drunk texts that make the girl feel like her guy's a sloppy alcoholic.
Nobody talks about it though, because everyone assumes you ought to 'just wing it'.
Just like most of this dating stuff.
Winging it usually just works once you're already a pro though.

SEXUAL FRAME SETTING

There are a variety of tools you can use to set sexual frames. But they aren’t all best used at all the same times in a seduction. Here’s which to use and when

[Thread] SUBTLE, DELIBERATE SEXUAL FRAMES

Some frames are clearly deliberate, but are more subtle.
In this category I'd place:

1. Light touch

2. Sexy vibe

3. Chase frames

4. Innuendo

5 CHICK CRACKS

1. THIS IS MY SIDE

Description: Literally putting the girl in her place. You are the man who likes to do things a certain way and she is going to fit in with that.

[Thread] Use: This is good for anytime you are walking down the street, lying in bed, watching tv or any other situation in which you can claim a preferred position out of the two available to you even if it’s for no good reason.

HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN’S SOCIAL SIDE AND WILD SIDE

Every woman has a social – or conformist – side and a sexual – or wild – side. Most guys though only talk to one of these sides. To succeed at seduction, you must speak to both.

Let’s dive in 👇

[Thread] Guys Who Are Good with Girls are able to acknowledge a woman’s outer social side while at the same time sexualizing their interaction with the woman.

HOW TO RESPOND A BAD REACTION FROM WOMEN

If a woman has a bad reaction to an approach you made, there’s often going to be room for improvement in there for you. Maybe you:

1. Need to do a better job pre-opening or pinging girls before going in.

[Thread] 2. Need to improve your delivery: smile more, be more relaxed, seem more real.

3. Need to work on some of your fundamentals or check your opening body language.

HOW TO GET YOUR GAME "AUTOMATIC"

Once you reach a certain point, all this stuff is automatic.

When you're new, it might seem like "too much to remember."

There are too many things going on.

Too much psychology to hold in your mind.

[Thread] You have to remember how to screen a girl.

You have to remember how to banter with her.

When competitor males show up... or blocky white knights... you have to know how to squeeze these guys out of the interaction or win them over.

WHY "BAD BOYS" GET ALL THE WOMEN

Have you ever wondered why guys who are bad boys always get all the women?
It's because they walk around with an attitude of "not giving a crap." If a woman doesn't respond to him like he wants, he doesn't care. He just walks off.

[Thread] Because he knows that there are hundreds of women out there.
Bad boys are also not afraid to speak their mind. If a woman tries to boss him around or be unreasonable, he will not hesitate to let her have it.

KEEP HER "GUESSING"

Here's what a conversation with a girl will look like when she's trying to press for an answer from a man and he's keeping her guessing

[Thread] Her: So tell me... do you like me?

Him: What do you think?

Her: Well, I'm still trying to figure that out!

Him: And why's it so important to figure out?

ALPHA MALE

A lot of people are talking about Alpha male, how they act, dress, look.

But also a lot of people are giving a lot of bad advice which won't turn you into an Alpha male - but an immature BOY.

Be careful which advice you will take.

These are mine.

[Thread] 1] RESPECT

An Alpha male is respected by other people because he doesn't expect to be - he earns it.

He won't let anyone disrespect him.

But also, an Alpha male respects other people.

FUN WAYS TO TALK TO GIRLS IN GROUP AND HOOK THEM

Girls in groups may seem intimidating. Yet with the right approach, groups of girls can be fun (and romantically productive!). So, put these techniques to use…

[Thread] 1. Examples For Groups of Two

Here is an example for hooking a pair of Girls:

You: I wonder…which one of you is the good girl, and which is the bad girl? Hmmm…let me guess. (Intrigue)

Girls: Tell us!

HOW TO GET HER BACK

See, the majority of guys out there tend to make one huge mistake when they try to attract an ex again:

They pursue her. They call her and send out desperate emails and text messages. Sound familiar?

[Thread] Well, think about: what was her reaction like? Did she swoon at your feet & admit what

a huge mistake she made for dumping you? Or were her words something more like "I just need some space" or "give me some time"? I bet the latter is dead on, right? Yeah, that's what I thought

HOW TO GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE FAST

Girls will friend zone and boyfriend zone guys, and effectively "hit the brakes" with them.

How do you take her foot off those brakes?

By using PRESELECTION

[Thread] WHY'D SHE HIT THE BRAKES?

If a girl decides you'd make a really good friend, she will HIT the BRAKES with you... majorly.

It might've felt like you had this great flirtation, plunging headlong toward bouncy bedroom fun, then... SCREECH!

ALWAYS KEEP YOUR OPTIONS WITH WOMEN OPEN

We've discussed this before on here — women (even women in committed relationships) have men approaching them all the time, and have options with men at all times because of that…

[Thread] Most men (even very attractive ones) don't get approached by women much, if at all, and thus, when they enter into committed relationships and stop meeting new women, their abundance mindsets gradually recede